In other, brighter news, university of Rochester is offering me $50,000 a year, I think im gonna go then…
I never filed a report, I felt more inner shame and was high when it happened… I shouldve but blamed myself for awhile
I deleted grindr… That app just sucks. Not the makers fault but the users. I would like to go on a date, I haven’t been on one in over a year, so I thought, hey maybeeeeee grindr could get me a date. Considering there are no local gay outlets in my hometown, grindr was the only option anyway. So went through, none of the guys at home were worth it. When I would go down to the city I would get hundreds of messages (I deleted grindr with 200 unresponded messages). I know most of you would say “why are you complaining?!” However, not a single one was an offer for something casual. They all wanted either gang bangs or bareback sex. Which both of those are fine if you know who’s doing it, and bare back is ONLY ok if you are in a monogamous, trusting relationship. So it was a flop. Now, I know I was foolish for trying grindr, but seriously there was worse results than I expected. Some guys threatened me, told me they would find me and rape me etc… Its scary, especially after already being assaulted I couldn’t do it.
So guys, please be careful, you’re all wonderful and deserve loving partners make sure your hook ups are safe, and make sue you’re safe no matter what.
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